Age: 31 years Origin: Pune, India Location in Germany: Berlin Profession: Postdoc Student in Chemical Biology, Berlin
Neelay's Life in Germany
In 2018, I took my first-ever solo international trip covering Italy, Sweden, and Germany. In the five days that I spent in the German capital Berlin, it felt like an international city brimming with life. It was buzzing with energy: a true melting pot that is so inclusive and has something for everyone. I felt instantly liberated. What also stood out was the city’s well-oiled public transportation - one of the best that I had seen on my travels.
Germany’s uninterrupted scientific research funding
My adventures in Berlin continued after I moved to the city – I hung out in bars on weekends, met interesting people at the city’s numerous flea markets and made friends from various backgrounds including Vietnamese, Turkish, Israeli, Brazilian etc.
Learning to navigate in a truly international city!
I learnt basic German back home when I was still with IISER, Pune. Upon encountering native German speakers in Berlin, I quickly realized that the language I had learned in India felt distinctively different. I realized my German language skills were not enough to get around the bureaucracy – in Bürgeramt, banks and so on. For instance, I faced challenges due to my lack of language skills, but fortunately, my colleagues proved to be incredibly supportive. Upon moving to the city, I had no friends and felt unfamiliar with the surroundings, but my colleagues stepped up to assist me with the essential bureaucratic requirements for registering myself in the city. Now, I take weekly classes offered by my workplace, and I honestly find it quite helpful in my day-to-day life in the city.
A newly minted Berliner with a twisty handle-bar moustache seeks out social life!
I’m a trained Indian classical Hindustani musician who used to perform back in Pune. In Berlin, I’m trying to form a group with community musicians who can be my accompanying artists on stage with skills in tabla, harmonium etc. It has been hard to find trained classical musicians, but I’ve had some success. I did find some people, but it feels like I need to cast a wider net. Ultimately my aim is to set up a platform for like-minded musicians. I do not want to limit myself to Hindustani music; I would love for some Carnatic musicians also to be part of the group. It’s my way of giving back to the city and I want to practice my craft.
Between my busy work, research and weekends dedicated to socializing, Berlin has been keeping me on my toes. I plan to stay in the city for at least another five years and I know Berlin will reveal itself in different ways to me.
Summer, my favorite time!
Summer is my favourite time in Berlin. Over and above exploring more of the city and its parks, and lakes, and having a beer in its Biergarten, I want to travel outside the city and enjoy Germany’s nature. I visited Rügen last year and it was nice. Tschechischer Schweiz (Böhmische Schweiz) is next on my travel list.
Rapid fire with Neelay
What cultural differences have you experienced in Germany?
Initially, I felt the classic stereotype that “Germans are stoic and don’t open up easily” at my workplace. But then I realized how it’s true about me too: I don’t open up to people too easily either. Although my colleagues and I have bonded really well, I do think people here are way more reserved than I expected them to be!
What do you enjoy most about living in Germany, and what do you miss the most about India?
I enjoy the ease of doing things, clean air and water, and the freedom Berlin offers. Prenzlauer Berg where I live is buzzing with people and reminds me of Pune.
What I miss about India is definitely the abundance of taste and healthy food. Plus, Pune’s climate and my family.
How would you describe Germany in three words?
Reserved, unyielding and rule followers.
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